tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4515795942844142992.post8181552103040114812..comments2023-10-02T06:17:13.341-04:00Comments on Postabortion journey, walk with me...: Finding My VoiceInfiniteGracehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04365787251323492813noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4515795942844142992.post-59357701876831397992014-10-16T07:20:35.656-04:002014-10-16T07:20:35.656-04:00Thanks for sharing the facts on abortionThanks for sharing the <a href="http://awomanshaven.com/" rel="nofollow">facts on abortion</a>Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02684009864283730052noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4515795942844142992.post-9535398072530076102014-09-09T20:37:33.415-04:002014-09-09T20:37:33.415-04:00So nice site and very good service so i like this ...So nice site and very good service so i like this very much and thanks for your great sharing..<br /><a href="http://www.videovoiceover.org/" rel="nofollow">video testimonial service</a> Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00740927723751502009noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4515795942844142992.post-3908148585645349642014-05-19T22:10:09.054-04:002014-05-19T22:10:09.054-04:00Part 2 - Sort of dejavu
Only sort of, meaning tha...Part 2 - Sort of dejavu<br /><br />Only sort of, meaning that my daughter became pregnant at age of 18 and fresh out of school. I failed to mention that I became pro-choice, along the way. I was convinced that prior to 8 weeks, it was just a blob of cells, and a "potential" to be a baby. It was NOT a baby. When I had my early miscarriage in my first pregnancy when I was married, it was just a bunch of blood clots. I saw no indications that it was the beginning of a baby. <br /><br />My poor, young daughter did not want an abortion. I am ashamed of how I responded when she told me that she was pregnant. I told her that she must either give child up for adoption, or abort. I was not willing to raise another child. I knew that my daughter was not mature enough to take care of a baby, and the burden would fall on me. Her boyfriend,(that I did not even know about) insisted that she have an abortion. (It was about child support) He already had a five year old child to another woman.(never married) <br /><br />My daughter did not want to abort. I told her that I would not help her if she did have child, and that she would be on her own. Her boyfriend told her that he would be out of her life for good. My daughter id not have the money to pay for abortion. I paid for half of it. The half that I paid for was doubled the price of my abortion in 1975. My daughter only agreed to abortion due to the threat of her boyfriend leaving her. (and, yes, he left her, anyways) She had some severe abdominal pain when she came home. I hated myself more than anything. I felt how could I have been so evil?! I wanted my grandchild back. I had that feeling of remorse return, that I felt when I aborted my own child. But, this was 10 times worse!!! My daughter did not want an abortion. I coerced her into getting one. My mother was unsure of funding my abortion. In fact, it was a sin that she highly regretted. And, btw, my mother was a religious woman. She went to Holy Hour weekly in addition to Sunday mass. Then she found a prayer group, and bible study. I felt the pain that my mother felt, only she was not to blame for my abortion. I was to blame for my daughter's. <br /><br />Forward four years - My daughter became pregnant again to the same guy. I believe that she tired to get pregnant since she aborted her first child. I found ovulation tests in her room. I was angry when my daughter told me she was pregnant. She was not married, and I was so angry for her being so careless. I knew that she tried to get pregnant, but she denied it at the time. Of course, I accepted it as a little time went on. I adore my grandson!! I LOVE being a grandma!!! <br />part 3 and conclusion up next.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4515795942844142992.post-72427940142742945702014-05-19T21:34:20.013-04:002014-05-19T21:34:20.013-04:00Part 1 - I will break this up into a couple posts....Part 1 - I will break this up into a couple posts. It will be too long to read in one post.<br /><br />I have not listened to the link, yet. I will listen to it, though. I wanted to comment on your mother. I have much to say on this topic, as one who had an abortion, and one that funded my daughter's. <br /><br />In 1975, I was 18 and fresh out of high school. I found out that I was pregnant to a guy that I was infatuated with, but did not feel the same way. I was a naive, young girl. I wanted to have my baby, at first. However, the father, denied paternity, and was not going to be supportive at all. At the time, I did not want to have a child, alone. I was in a vocational school at the time in Pittsburgh. I stayed at a college dorm. I was encouraged by roommate and peers to have abortion. Convinced me that it was just a blob of cells, and not a baby. <br /><br />My final decision was to have abortion. The only problem was that I had no income of my own. I had no financial support. I had to tell my mother, and that was something that I did not have the courage to do. On a weekend home, before I went back to school, I left her a letter under her pillow. I could not face telling my mother in person. After consulting my older sister, she decided to pay for my abortion. <br /><br />I regretted my abortion, immediately. I wanted to be pregnant, again. I wanted my baby back. I was angry at my mother for making it so easy. I was angry at seeing all these pro-life pictures. I wanted my baby back, and how dare they put those billboards up. <br /><br />FF - I went on and married at the age of 23. My first pregnancy while married, ended in early miscarriage. I was heartbroken, and felt that God was paying me back for aborting my first child. I feared that I would never have children. Soon, after, I became pregnant again. I had a son. Two years, later, I had my daughter.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4515795942844142992.post-60043526032928483032014-03-29T07:54:27.703-04:002014-03-29T07:54:27.703-04:00Thank you both for your support. Chimakuni - yes,...Thank you both for your support. Chimakuni - yes, exactly. I haven't found the right way to express myself so people understand that just because I talk about it doesn't mean I haven't "moved on." But with abortion, people always want to just sweep it under the rug or not deal with it and never, ever talk about it. Hopefully that will change. InfiniteGracehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04365787251323492813noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4515795942844142992.post-83346009107628106482014-03-28T08:54:01.601-04:002014-03-28T08:54:01.601-04:00Thought you did a good job with a huge decision. P...Thought you did a good job with a huge decision. Prayers for you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4515795942844142992.post-80057150896569885432014-03-26T16:28:50.349-04:002014-03-26T16:28:50.349-04:00So often, well meaning people, tell you you need t...So often, well meaning people, tell you you need to forgive yourself for having had an abortion. Forgiveness is an on going process - and sometimes, I think, that in their telling you what you need to do, they are saying "please forgive yourself, stop talking about this, and move on." <br /><br />Can a mother forget her child? No, never. <br /><br />Forgiveness is a journey - a life long journey and it is not limited to forgiving ourselves for abortion, but for all of our behaviors that have not been pleasing to God. <br /><br />I am certain that this interview was heard by those who needed to hear it! God Bless youchimakunihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08110341406524333073noreply@blogger.com